Friday, December 20, 2013

How Can Moms Best Balance Their Time To Get the Most Out of Themselves and Others

This week I had a Mialisia designer reach out and express the need for some guidance on time management. I could imagine her frustration and predicament. 

She, like many women, balance so many roles each day and often find that there simply is not enough time in the day to accomplish all that she wants to. This stirred my mind and I quickly thought of one of the best time management gurus in the world, the late Stephen R Covey. Check out this video and be thinking about how it applies to you:


SO.....when you plan your week/day/month, you must prioritize the big rocks first and then fill in the spots, (if available) with the pebbles. Don't allow the urgent things in the moment take precedence over those things that matter most.

I will cap off this time management post with a tie in from trying to have a paradigm shift in our thinking of how we execute our life. Covey refers to an “Execution Gap”. The first few minutes is humorous and I know that every dad out there who has ever coached his kid’s soccer team can relate to this clip. I also know that every mom watching on the sideline is guilty of a few uncontrollable giggles as they watch their suave and successful businessman husband completely fall apart. Sure he can manage 500 employees at the firm….but can he be effective on the soccer field with a bunch of 7 year olds?




Whether in your personal life or your career…do you ever feel like you are often running around in all directions? Sure your heart is in the right place but there just seems to be more chaos than results. Did you know:

  • Only 15% of employees could identify their company's most important goals. Either there are too many, or they change too often, not clearly defined, etc.
  • Does your front line know what the goals are? Do you? 
  • How do you take great strategies and goals and translate them into an action plan where things actually get done at work…or more important…within the walls of your own home.
  • Only 19%  of the employees researched say they feel passionate about the company’s top goals. They are not involved which = no ownership = no commitment
  • We can become so distracted by urgent things that they neglect the most important things
  • Goals will never be met until the goals are clear and each person knows what their specific part is. 51% say they don’t understand what they are supposed to do. 
Imagine if everyone on the team was spending their time on effective things. 
The challenge this week is to think about your big and small rocks and decide now how you will better prioritize and just trying to get it all done. 

Introduction to the Lighthouse Series...For the Strength of Women

I am excited to launch:
“The Lighthouse Series”

My goal is simple…to enrich your life, remind you of your divine inner beauty/value, and strengthen women around the world thru humor and spiritual nourishment. For you are the Lighthouses and I believe our paths have crossed for a divine purpose. We must discover what that is. 

I have invited some incredible writers and industry experts to join me in this journey. We will take the daily struggles I have heard for many years as a businessman, a Christian pastor, a marriage counselor, and now as a Mialisia Executive where I get the privilege to be in an almost entirely women industry. Yes, on the surface, I am a fish out of water. However, I know of a great Fisherman who knew best how to solve all the problems of our time. (Matthew 4:19)

So let me be very clear that this blog will not shy away from tying in spiritual principles that I have learned through my studies of the scriptures and my attempt each day to be a disciple of Christ. For every dilemma/question/hopeless situation we discuss in this forum is simply a storm encircling your ship. But I express confidence that the Savior is the perfect Lighthouse to help all of us to more stable waters and can somehow give us peace and hope in the journey at sea. After all, he not only wants to teach you how to fish...but be needs each of you to be a lighthouse for Him. 

Among the great lessons of life about overcoming depression, how to raise kids and still not go completely insane, how to balance being a mom, a wife, a taxi driver, a chef, an entrepreneur, a nurse, etc. we do want to learn lots her and be uplifted but please allow me to involve some humor into sometimes serious topics. After all, laughter is one of the best vitamins we can take in mental health prevention and treatment. 

If you find this helpful…please help be a lighthouse and not only subscribe to this blog, but share it with others thru social media. God bless you incredible women! You are incredible and I have the utmost confidence in you that with you and the Lord nothing is impossible! (Luke 1:37)

I confess that I have one minor weakness that you women don't have...I am a guy. So although I do not understand fully what it is like to be in your shoes, I consider myself empathetic and hope to be able to add a new perspective.


I admit I am not the best either at asking for directions just like your man....but I am not afraid to be candid and open and real in my opinions. I will offer some soothing hints at times but some tough love too on rare occasion. I do try to stay away from much of that because I have learned many things being around moms....the first being....you don't give yourselves enough credit and you are way too tough on yourself. So let's learn and grow in spiritual strength, mental toughness, and find ways to better tap into the greatest asset and most powerful thing in this entire world.....the heart of a mother. 

Let's enjoy this journey and know there is hope and laughter in our futures....


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